We submitted our medical reports to DCP but my husbands doctor screwed us over with his report, saying that he wouldnt recommend murray for adoption until he had a psych review for his depression. Never mind that he has (had) been treating murray for 4 years, and known about the (very mild) depression for the last 6 months - if he thought DH needed it, why didnt he actually refer him to someone, rather than just writing it in a letter and no doing anything. He certainly didnt tell dh that he felt anything was wrong. I think ikt is a vindictive thing as me made a complaint to the dr surgery about him overcharging us for the report (DHs report cost 3 times the cost of mine - exactly the same two page report!)
DCP sent us a 'please explain' letter and I am nervous this has ruined our chances. We havent started the assessment process yet as we want to see how this next round of ivf goes, but if it is unsuccessful we will start focusing on this again.