I wasn't meaning to criticise the choice/necessity of 'normal' women to stay at home or go back to work. The rules here are (or at least used to be) that at least one parent had to be the full time carer of an adoptive child for the first year as it was recognised that they had special needs above and beyond those of a biological child. My point was that celebs seem to be able to write their own rules for ICA and make it look easier than it is.

I apologise sincerely if I have offended anyone.