This is a very real and worrying situation for all parents be them single or not so don't feel bad about expressing it. We have decided that our 2 kidlets will go to my BIL and SIL (DH brother and his family). Both my parents have passed on and even though I have 2 sisters neither of them have any children so it would be a huge ask for them to take on 2 children. My BIL and SIL have 2 boys 8 and 10 so they would be ideal to care for our 2.

To be honest it scares the hell out of me as well.....