hey good luck, i think it could be a bit different with you as u have sole custody have you rang and asked???
No not yet. Even though she has seen my DF as her dad since we were 2-3mths into our relationship(her choice to start calling him dad) she has only recently started speaking more openly about it and is asking if she can get her name changed to DF's.

I would assume DF and i have to be married 2years before he can adopt her so thats the first thing on our lists. that wont happen until sometime next year as i refuse to be pregnant and/or fat at my wedding (which im both of now).

Im also scared about having to still contact sperm donor. We have nothing to do with him what so ever and want to keep it that way. Also he is the type of person that will try his hardest to stop this from happening to be an ******** towards me even though its something HIS child is wanting. The idiot doesnt even pay the $28 a month child support he is suppose to pay.