I have always been prepared to adopt when we were TTC, but I think because I already have biological children and DH didn't that he was very reluctant. I guess, to him, he already loves and looks after 3 children that aren't his biological children, and now he wished to have one that was of his blood.

Now with soon-to-be four children, another child seems a distant and unlikely undertaking. Though if money was no object and I could stay home to look after the children, I expect I would love to adopt a Chinese girl, as there are just so many out there that have been abandoned. And as our family is a race-blended family anyway, I am not too worried about the child being exposed to different cultures.

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sushee