Thanks heaps,

I know that putting our name on the papers isnt the right thing to do but it really annoys me so much that they make this so hard, that this is what we feel like doing.
We will make yet more calls, and see what we come up with.

We rang the family court today and they said that we cant do anything till we apply and given our situation and the reasons we want to adopt the application will probably be denied. But they suggested we ring the Supreme court, who wont even give info without seeing an application from family court for adoption which will be denied before it even gets there, so round and round we go again!!!!!!

Sorry im so sour and negative about the system but something which can be as simple as sign the papers and pay the fee, shouldnt be made so hard by pen pushers!!! There has to be checks of prospective adoptive parents but someone needs to be more in control of the entire situation!!!

Thanks again for all the assistance, im going to take two panadol to ease my head, go and scream into a pillow and maybe , just maybe ill be better tomorrow.

thanks again,

Keith