oh goddess Astrid he sounds like my DH, the job jumping, the biatching about my uni studies (I took a year off, and each time I've wanted to go back it has been difficult for me to do it due to him), me being the major breadwinner etc

As bath says, continue to vent here We're here for you!

I never finished one of my degrees (IT), never going to finish it, he can't understand that, he also can't understand why I swapped to science when I don't work in a scientific field (if anything the IT degree would be better suited), but I'm studying science because it is something I love doing. I'm going back to study next year, going to be doing some pre-prep study of my own between now and then (1 subject I failed coz I froze in the exam, the other was a subject I started doing exernally & couldn't finish - hard to do with NO support at home including no time to study).