Oh dear, so much else has been going on since this post. He has not mentioned the degree in awhile, he is obsessed with house hunting, even in the ER today he was going on about houses So much for me getting better. It is one of those things, along with many others, we need a good long talk about. I need to find out exactly what he wants from me, SAHM or working mum. I don't see the point in the pressure if he only wants me to work a few hours a week. Also the properties we are looking at will require working (vegies, chooks, 4 legged beasties etc), so there will be little time outside of that to have paid work.

Thanks for bumping this thread.