17 month old girl with down syndrome..

[Catastrophic]

I would do the same as the 15month old. If your worried about appropriateness - Why don't you get both of the toddlers a book? Maybe one of those photo books that can help with learning words etc. (you put a photo of mum and dad and things like that etc)

[Sunny Love]

Just the extra measure to make sure that that particular child, like all children, are included in the days activites in a positive way.
As for appropriateness of gift in a lolly bag....go the book.....no one EVER throws out kids books as opposed to cheap plastic or sugar.xx xx

You're an angel for taking the time to ask I say. xx

[toomanyshoes]

I would do the same as the 15month old. If your worried about appropriateness - Why don't you get both of the toddlers a book? Maybe one of those photo books that can help with learning words etc. (you put a photo of mum and dad and things like that etc)

Thanks! Books are a great idea and tie in with what the others are getting.