first off *hug*
second. its ok. drugs are not that bad - DJ has cluster fits now - he's on two type of meds for it.. it can be scary watching them have them (regardless of size/length ect) but the main thing is she'd most likely not be aware of them happening (Dj is on enough meds he knows and fights them)
third - she may grow out of it - a cousin of mine had them as a small child and as far as i know now (he'd be 10?) has not had any in a few years.
fourth - if you need support and the likes check out epilepsi victora (im summeing they have one in every sate?) they are wonderful and can come out and teach you how to do manage/deal with them.

If you like PM me an i can chat to you about my dealings with seasures in small kids (DJ is amost 4 and had them since he was 22 months old)