H I was called into school at the end of term but the teacher seemed more concerned that DS2 needed to try harder and stop getting distracted by his friends/talking inappropriately. He also mentioned a lack of insight into the consequences of his actions/impulsiveness but adhd wasn't ever mentioned. It was only when I thought about his behaviour at school alongside the behaviour at home (which we have found some coping mechanisms for) that I thought it might be something more than just naughty behaviour. He will have a new teacher next week so I'll have a chat to her about my suspicions.

I haven't particularly liked his teachers the last two years so maybe it's just that, and maybe this new teacher will not have any issues. Time will tell I guess.