Lulu, I think you are totally right. I work in IT and I am sure that many people I work with are. And I think both DH and I have some traits.

We get J's final results on Tuesday week. It will interesting to see what they say. I'm pretty sure they aren't going to say ASD but he certianly has traits and in the last couple of weeks with school holidays and change of routine we have seen more of them than usual. This must be obvious to others also - his swimming teacher told DH on Saturday (when he mucked around through his whole lesson) that she knows what it's like as her two kids are borderline everything too (and this was without us telling her anything about J's assessments). And the kindy teacher has mentioned some of his ASD traits also. It's interesting now too that for the first time DH is starting to refer to him as borderline ASD, something which I didn't think I'd ever hear him say!

I am thinking of you Christy. I hope it all goes well.