Turk - I find if I speak really quietly to Mitch and put my hand on his shoulder etc, he finds it easier to tune in. I often ask if he might like to try to find a different way. NEVER take an aspy head on! You have to make it their idea

Mitch winds up fairly easily so the 'low talking' helps him.

I find it incredibly hard to keep finding the patience I need - it doesn't help that he still has SCREAMING meltdowns that buzz my ears. Fark.