Just curious if any of you can pick up when a meltdown is coming. It's strange since Sat I have had a feeling something was brewing .Yesterday morning I said to DH i can sense a meltdown coming..yep sure enough we had a beauty n the middle of the swimming pool of all places. He has overcome his fear of water , he still doesn't like showers and baths but will manage to do it without to much complaints and kicking and screaming. However last night he had his first lesson in his new group. It was at a different time slot and with a new teacher and in the deep end of the pool.
As I was walking him down he started with the 'Im going to die" talk and I spoke to him about it , he happily went into the pool and well that was that. I turned around not even 5 minutes later and he was screaming, refusing to do anything and just having a major meltdown.. I felt like jumping in with him.
Luckily enough I am a swim teacher there so the staff know me and Hamish and were great with him. He was brought to me arms and legs flying everywhere. We managed to calm him down enough for him to catch his breath and he started up again. Dh came and picked him up and took him home as we had DD in the pool still.
He fell asleep in the car.
This morning he was set off again by Lachie making noises and just basically being a noisy toddler.
Amazingly though this afternoon he is calm and the my feeling of something not quite right has gone..
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