Hugs Suse. My dad used to helpfully tell me that if I hit Riley more he'd be better behaved! Luckily he is now more educated about sensory issues and much more understanding.
Tania- I can tell when a meltdown is brewing usually and the OT has been great in helping us with strategies to try and divert them, they sometimes work! Sometimes I just leave places crying LOL.

Has anyone had problems with their child wetting their pants ? Riley is TT but if he is busy or doing something he likes he just wets himself and doesn't seem to care until i mention it and then he says "Don't scream". He is still in night nappies and I worry he will be until he's 17!