Aspergers/Autism/Sensory Integration Chatter

[maz]

Wilhelm went through a stage (3 years ) were he would only wear shorts, ug boots and a tshirt..inter or summer. I would get so many mean looks from older ladies it wasnt funny but what the hell could I do? He's just starting to wear long pants occasionally and jackets instead of jumpers...so its a start.

We have a PSP meeting at schhol today for him...time for maz to let rip at his know all special ed teacher! Im really peeved cause he hates being called Wil (so do I) and he gets an award last week and the stupid teacher write Will in the name section! So if yo hear thunder at 10am this morning you know its me going off! We've also found he wets his bed the nights after he has the special needs class.......but of course tha twould be my fault cause he is so good at school.....doesnt matter that ive told them so many times thaqt it is at home and 24 hours later that he lashes out.

I swear sometimes the teacher make you feel like your making it up...like we're trying to make their life hard for teh 6 hours they have them. grrrrrr

We also bought a small laptop that he's been aloud to play on after school for an hour. Its helped with getting him to settle down. We got it from WOW super store for $700 and although it has no cd driv eon it..its a nice little computer for both the boys to use. We thought we may as well get something they can use for school ect as we now get 50% at tax time

OH and its raining today...Wilhelm HATES the rain...gets scared shiatless of it so he had a fit when I dropped him of at school.

Best go......need to change a little boys bum then into the ring i go

[christy]

Ah Maz I hope it went okay & you stood your ground.

We had a good week. M is going to a social group with 5 children with the OT on Sat. Its in the guise of a Martial arts class for kids with sensory integration issues, but its actually a social class designed to build their confidence. I can't wait to see what she does with them.

[[M]umma[M]ia]

BIL hates the rain too.. but i think its more to do with his hair getting wet?

Christy - cant wait to hear how M goes

[barbie-up]

Hi - I got the report today from Alex's paed. on the testing from the past three weeks. There seem to be three different scales and testing that were done.

Autistic Diagnostic Observation Schedule (ADOS) - 11 out of what ever that is scored out of. Classification: Autism Spectrum Disorder.

Griffiths Mental Development Scales - showed normal development. This has developmental ages in months for areas of Locomotor skills, personal social skills, hearing and speech, eye and hand coordination, perhormance and practicial reasoning. Alex is 40 months old and all of his scores came in between 36 and 42 months.

Schopler Childhood Autism Rating Scale (CARS) - 32 'which is in the range for a diagnosis of autism'.

"The reported history, my observations, ADOS and CARS scores are supportive of a diagnosis of high functioning autism spectrum disorder".

I have to get onto have a speech/language and psychological assessment to complete her developmental profile.

What do they do in a psychological assessment? Do they deal with food issues?

One thing I did get today was a list of information sessions around the city/Preston area throughout the year on food, teaching literacy to children with autism, preschool and school integration ideas etc that sound really good.

I've known for over a year that there was something different, and now it's all on record.

I am not with Alex's dad and when I first bought it up with him last year he refused to acknowledge anything. Should I give him a copy of the report?

[~Saram~]

Hi Barb,

How are you handling all this now, it's always a bit of a shock when the paperwork comes through no matter how much we know it in our heart.

Food issues - as in texture, taste etc even putting too much in their mouth is a sensory processing issue and is usually dealt with an OT, find a good one who deals with SPD!

as for your partner I think it would be good to share it with him, he may not be ready to deal with it at the moment but at least you have laid the groundwork.

[christy]

I forgot to say how the martial arts thingo went!! Apparently there were 5 children, 2 martial arts experts (?? maybe just black belts dunno) and M's OT. They worked on body awareness and did heaps of "how to relate to sensai" and "respect your team" sort of things. DH went with M and loved it. So hopefully KRudd's $$ comes through so she can keep going. Otherwise we have to wait until April because we only have enough $$ for one thing per term. This term is swimming. We just don't have the $$ to do everything, as much as I want too.... damn $$. If we had a fricken diagnosis at least the OT would be covered

[maz]

BIL hates the rain too.. but i think its more to do with his hair getting wet?

I hate my hair being wet!!! I sometimes wonder if Im on the spectrum somewere I am so anal about stuff and god I get in the worst mood's if things dont go my way.....and counting...I know im obsessed with counting...it was alright when I worked in the bank.....I always had to count and it sort of worked but I cant even have a money bank inthe house without having to open it and count what money is in it.

Barb - give him the paper work hon. men find it so much harder then us woman to get a grip of these things....heaven knows my DH was in denial for 3 years about Wilhelm...until we got the paper work.

Christy - Im so glad the martial art thing went well. I know Wilhelm loves it (I use to do it as a teenager and have showed him some of what i know)....hmmm I think I might look into it a bit more nore for him. Might be a great way for him to curb his anger. WE got our Unvcle rudd money on saturday so have no paid for the little lap top we bought. Its helped with calimng time. He wears head phones for it and he often laughs out loud. We go and see what he's up to and he's watching some mario thing on you tube.

Our PSG meeting went really well. I think the special needs teacher thoguht I was trying to work against her and it wasnt until the vice principal stepped up and backed me with things I do that she finally understood im not the biratch she thought I was. I also said that I would like the Career to step back a bit more as I find she is mothering him to much. EG - I got an invite to come have lunch with wilhelm at his special needs class...turned up and the career was there, who took over conversations with Wilhelm and kept butting in. she also mentioned he could play the principals DS when the principal and i both said no and he went off. I was ****ed and let her know it in front of everyone. Lucky for me the Vice principal was there and was the whole thing. I todl the special needs teacher that next time they have a parent student lunch like that that the career's need to step back and let the kids have it with their parents....she started getting defensive BUT the VP steppe din and agreed with me and she noticed that the career took over 'parent duties' (as she put it).
I understand that she loves wilhelm and I appreciahte that but she has to realise that Wilhelm is my son not her's and she needs to step back.

Other then that all is good (knock on wood) even though its afullmoon. He even wore long patns and a long sleeved jacket to school today Jed and i were so happy!!!!

[~Saram~]

Maz DH and i are always telling each other we belong on the spectrum! Niether of us live for being social and I have a very sensitive sense of smell.

Christy pleased to hear the martial arts went well! Hope you can get that offical paperwork soon so you can get some financial help.

Xander has been really sad lately. I'm on the verge of saying depressed and I don't know why. He says he loves school although he thinks it is too long. He is having some trouble with the kids but I asked him f it was bothering him and he said no. He doesn't lie but maybe he doesn't understand/can't communicate what is wrong???? Last night he cried himself to sleep and he is always saying he's a bad person or hopeless! I don't know where he is even getting the words from??? Any ideas. I just want him to be happy

[christy]

oh Saram how sad for the poor tyke. He is such a beautiful boy.... that breaks my heart, it must destroy yours. I was reading somewhere about how some of these kids have such low self esteem. There is another boy at Matilda's school with Asperger's who has said that no one likes him and it makes him sad at a school presentation its not totally true its just that he can't work out the social things but it doesn't matter about the truth its that he thinks that and it makes him sad.

We've done a few playdates with him and Matilda to try and build a friendship so the quirky kids get to stick together and have friends... its hard.

Okay... today I officially became a super mummy. Seriously... I did something I'm so fricken proud of. Matilda likes to sleep with weight on her chest, but she hates her feet being covered, so it means weighted blankets won't work etc.... but she loves her wheat bag to sleep with unfortunately its not big enough and falls off. The last week, everytime its fallen off, she's woken up and started crying and wakes the whole house. So in my sleep deprived state, I went to Spotlight and picked up some stuff and to the health food shop and I have sewn together a wheat bag "cuddle buddy" for Matilda. Its about an A3 sized wheat bag that I've put a face on and arms & legs!!! Its so amazingly cute and I filled it with 1.5kg of wheat, 5 drops of lavender oil and stuffing... (the stuffed animal sort). Its gorgeous and I will put it up on facebook as soon as I can find the USB cable

Found it!!! https://www.bellybelly.com.au/forums...hp?photo=12890

[christy]

Has anyone here heard of DAN doctors? I'm just a bit curious and my curiosty has got the better of me.