I forgot to say how the martial arts thingo went!! Apparently there were 5 children, 2 martial arts experts (?? maybe just black belts dunno) and M's OT. They worked on body awareness and did heaps of "how to relate to sensai" and "respect your team" sort of things. DH went with M and loved it. So hopefully KRudd's $$ comes through so she can keep going. Otherwise we have to wait until April because we only have enough $$ for one thing per term. This term is swimming. We just don't have the $$ to do everything, as much as I want too.... damn $$. If we had a fricken diagnosis at least the OT would be covered