hi ladies, my name is ray I have also experienced what you have been going through. My second child matthew, while I was pregnant with him we found out at 14 weeks that he had tumors in his left lung. It is called cystic adenomatoid malformation from 20 weeks I kept going in to labour and they would stop it, I ot to 36 weeks after months going in and out of labour they finally let me go, he was tiny and had trouble breathing the doctors told me they don't know if he would survive and that I should of aborted him when we found it, but my kids like proving doctors wrong he had his lung removed when he was 10 months old and is now 7 years old has good days and bad days, my good days know. But my youngest son brandon from the time he was born we knew there was something wrong with him it's just trying to get doctors to listen. Brandon had constant ear infections and tonslitis he speech was none existent for has age. At 2 years of age they finally listened at removed the tonsils, adnoids and put grommets in his ears it worked for a while. he is know 5 years old and after my husband and I pushing to get heard they finally did test and found he has global development delay meaning his age is 5 but his mentally 3 but very smart pulling things about and putting back together. He is going to a special school next year.