Thanks. Yep, Stephens op is next Tuesday and I'm getting nervous too. I can't wait till it's over. Good luck with Kane's op. Give him a big hug for me. I remember when the nurse took Stephen to theatre he looked at us and gave us one last "wide smile" and we both nearly cried. He'll look fantastic after, a real little spunk (as he is now!) And you'll always have heaps of photos and memories of his cleft and he'll know how much you love him and how much you loved his cleft. (But I do know exactly how you feel)