That is discrimination - even if your child doesn't have a disability and I would be calling the anti-discrimination board.

Even the fact that she referred to him as a 'disabled child' is non-inclusive language. People with disabilities should never be referred to as 'disabled people' but rather 'person with a disability' so that they are not defined by their disability but rather as a person first. Same with babies/children, they are 'babies/children with a disability' not 'disabled babies/children'.

I'm sorry you had to go through that. It is completely unacceptable and if you have the energy, I definitely think you should pursue it further. It's not okay to exclude people because they may (or appear to have) a disability.