Hi Donna,
I know what you are going through. We are at the start of having Mikey (3.5yrs) assessed. Our Paed appointment is on the 8th Oct and it has been such a long wait!
It is a great idea to write things down, especially triggers....this helps alot. I understand that you need some answers...that is exactly how I am feeling....I just want to know how to help Mikey cope better. Mikey is extremely intelligent and a gorgeous little boy....but his behavior is out of control....if he doesn't get his own way....he starts screaming and hitting and basically starts going into a rage. I just need to know how to control this so we have great outcomes for Mikey and for us. The road will be long.......but I am sure that happiness for us all is just around the corner