My DS was diagnosed just after his third birthday. We saw community health and got a referral to the local child development unit. They did an assessment (ADOS) with both a speech therapist and occupational therapist. I took this to the pead along with a notebook of all DS' quirks and my concerns. After reviewing the ADOS and my notes DS was diagnosed with autism.

A diagnosis opens doors. Under 7s are eligible to the Helping Children With Autism funding. This is $12000 to be used with approved providers for therapy and therapy tools. The only catch is they must be diagnosed by their 6th birthday.

GL hun its a hard road but worth the recognition and help for you and your darling boy.