Nicole - Welcome. We all know how you are feeling, it is upsetting when you first find out. But trust me Scarlet will adjust really well - kids are so adaptable. I will be thinking of you in Monday. Please let us know how you go. I was really surprised how my daughter coped getting the harness on, which really helped me cope. I ended up thinking if she isn't bothered by it then why should I be.
Lets hope your journey is a short one.