lol my previous post should have said Quick, not kick

Milly5, big hugs for you, it is really hard.

I struggled especially with the having to wear bigger clothes. To me it felt like my little newborn bubba was being stolen from me and I wouldn't get the same experiences I had with my son.
I'm pleased to say I was wrong, we survived.

not sure if this will help you or not, but from big w I got a bonds nighty, and knee high socks that fit 000 babies,for my little girl, they might help you.
My little girl was diagnosed at about 8 weeks so we went into a db brace, so i'm not sure how to work nappies around the harness. For the brace, I would flip her over onto her tumy and post it, and lifting legs to clean underneath I would, and still do use my whole fore arm. In retrospect I wish I had have tried some elimination training then I might not have got soo much poo on my hands!

Karma, well done on adapting the nappies, we do get clever when faced with a challenge