I am new to this thread, But what I want to say to you is hold on. I have worked with children with sever dissabilities. She will be fine, not to say that there will not be hardships for her. But I believe in the complete restoration of what God has created. It might not look like what we think it should look like. But he is a compassionate God!!! I have just gone though a loss of a child, and I would give anything to be where you are. I know this may not make it any easier. She has life and God gave it to her. Just rest, and know he is in control, not making her that way, but He has a plan.. She is special and don't think of that as bad. Think of it as wonderful!!!