I can understand part of what your going through..I guess part of what you might be feeling too is that you want it to be all back on the road to normal sooner than later...I can defiantely relate to that..

For Jess's point of view the older the better, mots babies don't have operations tilafter 6 months for a general, I guess because the risk of complication is higher (the dose of anthesthetsia for a start are so minute for a little bub) obviously if the live condition wasn't a factor then then things would have taken place sooner..

I think you've probably got things settled in your brain now, of waht is ahead (or what was ) that is how I dealt with all Felix's tests, I kind of prepared my brain, by saying"okay just get through this and then it will be okay etc" of course his were only tests and not operations to correct anything..

It's a shame you wont get OS right now, I think your rather game for wanting to travel there with 3 kids myself LOL!! I hope it works out that you can still go at some point..your not being selfish, it's a normal thing to want..shows you have a good coping mechanisms and you are getting on with a normal life..

It is SUCH great news about her liver..I am just so glad for her that something is going her way..that is amazing about the other 2 cases in one weekend..what is going on there?? Do they know whether it's casued by any environmental factors?probably just one of those things I forgot whether it was this that is genetic or not?


Anyhow I'm glad to hear good stuff about little Jess..hope it all keeps getting better and better..!