next year DJ may go to kinder. he can ether go next year (aged 4) or the following year (aged 5) but im not sure if he'll be ready? its come up now as we'll have to apply for funding for an aside for him due to the AS and attendance at a normal kinder. he wont be toliet trained and may know *some* keyword. the former will remain at 5 also as AS kids dont TT till much, much later.

the risk too is if we send dj at 5, vic will be 4 and in the same grade\class. which is fine but they'll be at differant schools and i want vic to be his own person KWIM? and i dont want him to think he'll be at school with dj eather. aaaaargh what to do what to do???