Hi Tan,

Having a child labelled must be a very difficult and scary thing to deal with. Although I don't have a child with asbergers, both my DH and I have taught such beautiful children.
I suggest you get your GP to give you a referral for a Paedetrician. The public system can be very slow. I taught a little girl in kindergarten & I had an idea that she was somewhere on the autism spectrum. It took eight very long months for a diagnosis. The earlier the intervention, the better the children are at coping socially.
I have also read a great thread on Autism and asbergers somewhere on one of the forums here (sorry, not sure where).
There are lots of people here, going through a similar situation who I'm sure could answer your questions.

Take Care