We have Kanes next Op date.....

[Pretty Butterfly]

Thanks ladies....

I hate breaking down in front of the kids, but in here they dont know...

I know I'll cope, but when I think about it I get scared and feel all really insecure that things wont go ok....

The thought he wont come back to me after being put under is terrifying...

[MantaRay]

Jodie, I will be thinking of you hun. I can only imagine how hard this is for you. Kane is such a strong little man and has done so well with everything so far. I am sure he will do so again hun. I wish you all the very best.

[Phteven]

try not to imagine the worst (I know that's easier said than done).
He will come back to you and he will bounce back in no time flat.

[Nadine]

Aww, sending you and Kane some big I will be thinking of you both.

[rhyb]

Awww Wishing Kane the best of luck. Look at that cheeky grin he's tough all he needs from you is to be there.
Try to relax (I know easier said than done) your little man's in safe hands.

[leesha]

Please be strong because I am looking up to you other cleft mums for support and guidance! I am scared for Taj as you are for Kane but we are in this together! They are strong little men!!!
Kane will pul thru this with no worries and then you will think "Why was I so scared?"
But I am with you all the way!!!!
xoxoxoxoxoxoxoxo
P.S This will be me posting worries bout Taj's op soon!!!

[maz]

Jodie honey Im feeling your pain

As you said thankfully he is so little and he wont remember this time in his life.

You are truely a strong and loving mum babe...keep strong and we'll all be here to help support you when you need us

[SJL]

Hi Jodie,
I can sympathise with you. I know how hard it is making that trip to hosp knowing your baby is going under the anesthetic.

When my daughter went in for her hip surgery earlier this year it was the first time she went under that I didn't have support for me. My princess was fine other than when they put on the mask she didn't have a single tear, mean while I was a mess. She came out fine as everyone had told me she would but it doesn't make it any easier or less scary as a parent.

Good luck for both you and Kane!!!. He will get through better than ever. Make sure you have someone at the hospital with you during the op, I know I could of done with a shoulder to lean on last time round.

He will be fine and it will all be worth it.