Thanks for all the encouraging words

Megan - I would love a copy of the handout. I'll PM you my email address. Thanks very much for that.

The MIL has done a bit of an about turn since our conversation, telling me how healthy DD looks, how well she's growing, and that the BM is clearly 'working'. She also sat with us yesterday while DD gnawed on some cucumber and rock melon and seemed ok about it, but she's hard to read as she just says what she thinks you want to hear most of the time, so I'm still going to give her the info.

Cheers for all your support and thoughts on what to do, it's really helped.