Hey everyone...

My baby boy is due late November and DF and I have already chosen the name Jamie Spencer. Only my DF is Chinese and his mum wants to give bub a Chinese name.
Im not sure how i feel about this... i mean, i wanted him to have the name that i picked and that was all, but is it disrespectful to tell his family no?
They not only want to have a Chinese name on bubs birth certificate, but they want to have a proper Chinese name picked out in which they will call the baby... im not really comfortable with this... I have chosen his name and that is what i want him to be called... is that unreasonable.

I'm also being told that if i have to have a c-section that i have to book it for the day that they are told by a fortune teller for good luck.

Has anyone else had experience in this type of situation.. families and cultures and whatnot? Or know someone who has been through it? im really stuck on what to do, because i dont want to be disrespectful and do far have just nodded my way through the conversation, but at the same time i believe that he is my son and i should get the say, not them (as long as DF agrees of course)