In that case I think Tabitha Eladia is beautiful...and as you said anyone can use it, I'm putting it on my list, it's just goregous.

My mum always says that the minute the bub is put in your arms you should look at your DH and say "I want to name her X" and they'll agree to anything - so you could try that if you want so that you can have Eladia as a first name. Just out of interest will you pronounce it the english or spanish way?