At the moment we are in the same boat as you with a name for our little man.

His middle name is already chosen as it is DH's father's name (DS has my father's name as his middle name). I really, really dislike DH's father's name but have resigned myself to the fact that I don't have much choice in the matter, and in the end it's only a middle name.

There is only one name that DH and I have agreed on so far, I certainly not as much as DS's name. I feel a little guilty about that too...