If you're not sure about it, then i'd say don't use it. it's a very tough decision to name your baby, and if you're questioning the association between the name and your angel baby at this point, you'll find that vibe is possibly going to always have a link to your angel and will get to you. we had names picked while TTC - and haven't changed that at all because we never associated that name JUST with the babies we have lost. but we HAVE chosen a middle name to honor our babies that we've lost

think it through - if you think you will be able to distance the name from the pain of your loss (as we were able to - we discussed names while TTC, not just while pg kwim?) then go for it - but make sure you're able to look at the names objectively and not just as the name associated with that pain

HTH

BG