We had DS's name picked out at 20 weeks. We didn't buy personalised stuff or anything. We didn't change our mind and his name suits him well. Even if I had of thought another name was better, once it was picked, DH was set and no way was he changing his mind. Even with DD, we were tossing up two names right up to 38 weeks when we settled on one. When I suggested that the other one suited her better, he looked at me like I was stupid. Decision was made and that was that. He can be very stubborn though. Even now, even though I love DD's name, I still sometimes think of the other one and I still think it would have suited her.