No it wasnt true for us. We pretty much had a girls name, not that we really discussed it though as we just "knew" we were having a boy so we didnt really bother looking into girls names too hard lol. We agreed on a couple easily but focused our time more into the boys name which we just could NOT agree on. I hated all but one name DP suggested, he hated ALL the names I suggested lol. We found out we were having a boy at 20 weeks, I found one other name I liked which DP agreed on, but we could not commit to one! I went into labour at 40+2 and we still had no name, so I made DP pick and to tell me after the birth. Thank god he went with the name he first suggested, we always kept going back to it and we both loved it, the name I suggested would not have suited DS at all.