We don't tell what we are thinking because in the end with DD we didn't use anything that we had on our shortlist and actually named her a week later

This bub we don't even really have any names yet, so nothing to tell bubs will be names once we have met face to face and we can find a name that suits. DD doesn't have a "common" name and we prefer to not use a "Top 10" or similar name as the first names

So we wouldn't know if someone chose the name we wanted to use anyway!