Ok, so we both like Kayla

Problem is, I have a 2nd or 3rd cousin called Kayla. We are friends on FB, she's only about 14 & I do see them, but only every few years. Last names would be different. Do you think thats ok?

I'm thinking a different spelling, but I really like it that way.
Kaila? Kayla? Kaela? What do you think?

Suggestions for middle names?

I have no idea if I feel comfortable using the name. I'm thinking of pm'ing her & asking her & her mum what they think. Her mum & I get along really well. Our younger kids are similar ages & we always talk when we see each other, its just not often. I see her father more, but she's not with them very often.

I have no idea! I've loved the name since the day she was born & I first heard it!