You might change your mind anyway by the time comes babe. The girls name I had all ready had DS been a girl, I had planned to use next time (assuming we have a girl), but now two years on, the name (Zara Evelyn) just doesn't hold the same appeal to me (even though it has special meaning as Zara is the middle name of DS's godmother, and the Evelyn was DH's favourite (but deceased) Auntys name

However if the name is still special to you when the time comes, I say use it, you've talk to your Nan about it and have her blessing, and I think your grandfather would be chuffed. While I wouldn't particularly want any poor child to have the name Naomi (everyone spells it wrong), I'd burst with pride if someone named their child for me...

Speaking of which, Have you thought of a girls name should you have DD#2?