That's fantastic - thanks ladies, I feel so much better. Looking at other forums so many comments were really negative and even though it was DH's idea he started to turn off it, just when I started to love it.
Rowellen - thanks for all your ideas hun, you are always so good at suggesting names
I think I'm going to work on DH to go back to his original idea and not be freaked out by other peoples comments. Even if we called her something more conventional like Ivy and then used coco as a nickname it kind of defeats the purpose. Besides I actually hate nick names and shortened names which is why I like to pick nice names that don't need a nick name IYKWIM?
Now what does everyone think of Ryder for a boy? Again, I think it goes nicely with W i l l o w.