i would do it

i found myself in a similar situation when i was pregnant with dd

a friend of ours was pregnant too, she was 3 months ahead of us, she was a friend, but not someone we would deal with on a day to day basis. would hardly see each other

when i found out she had named her dd the same as ours, initally i was upset and started to think of different names, but nothing touched my heart, i was so set on this name, and so we stayed with the original name

it has been 8 yrs since dd was born and we have lost touch with this friend, we have moved town and i have no idea where she lives now.

all the best with whatever you decide xxx