I will tell our families the sex but I refuse to tell them the names and I always say even already we have picked names. We haven't but it shuts them up. My Grandma told me she hated my sons name when I rang to tell her I had him. She gave me suggestions on other names when I was at the hospital. I said no we love it and it will stay.

Families always make it all so hard.. I would tell her she is wasting her time you picked the name months ago and it won't change. And you will tell everyone once she is born.

By the way I love both names.. I do think Ruby is really cute