with a new wrap on the way i have been practicing carries with my current one (size 6...hehe trying to do shorty wraps with a long =P) anyway, i have Spock in a DH atm. can you get them too high? she is asleep, and her head is in the crook of my neck, and pretty sure she is resting on her hands... i know too low is bad, but is there such a thing as too high? it is comfy...