Baby Wearing General Chatter #3

[~TT40~]

Does anyone have the Indigo Milky Way yet? I'm thinking of getting one, but I'm also wanting to know what others think of them.

Thats what Tenibear is waiting on =)

[onthefly]

Phebee - the easiest way to learn is to actually come to a meet and see things in action. OTherwise it's all too theoretical (and utterly confusing)

alibaby - it depends what you want. What have you used before? Does something with buckles appeal? are you open to tying things? Is it more for little baby or to be used later as well?

[AliBaby]

Thanks babylove and MadB.

I think I would need it for the first year. After that, I think baby will be to heavy for me. I have really big boobies too so there is already strain on my back.

When I had DD 4 years a go, I was given a baby bjorn which I used once and never again, after hearing how bad they were. I has a sling, but sold that. I can't remember what brand it was but I could never get Dd in a good position in it and always felt like she would fall out.

I don't mind tying something up but def want something that will be good for my back.

[onthefly]

if you've a bad back, myabe something 2-shouldered, as opposed to a sling?
A soft-structured carrier (ergo is one, there are many, many others) will last well into toddlerdom - you can simply swing them round to your back when they're a bit bigger. much comfier and convenient.
mei tais are also 2-shouldered adn offer good support, front & back, but you tie rather than clipping buckles. Actually not really any more complicated to use (some people find them a bit daunting at first, but it's all just a matter of trying and practicing a bit). If you can get along to a sling meet in your area to see a few things in action, that might be your best bet.

I prefer wraps - they're totally adjustable so will fit comfortably for anyone, can be used through till toddler years, front/side/back. very versitile. they do require a bit more learning and practice, however.

bjorns are not all that comfy - and most people wouldn't be able to carry beyond 3-6 months - they also don't really provide optimal positioning for baby's hip/spine development.

[AliBaby]

Thanks so much hun, you have given me some great advice.