kitt3n - I tighten the straps so much that the cross is quite high up my back.. but what else can I do? The rings are just under my boobs!! (I'm sure they're meant to be at hips, but there's no other way to tighten this thing!!!)

missymoo- DD is 16 weeks and almost 6kg.

I even made my own Moby Wrap and have the same issues... it just kills my left shoulder.

DD tends to slouch to my left shoulder, and often her right leg (closest to my left shoulder) is a bit higher up than her right, however even when she is straight, it still hurts.

I have excellent posture (but my neck is out a bit, making my head angle a tiny bit t the left)

Any ideas??

Also, what shell asked, is it OK for DD's legs to be a little red afterwards, and are we meant to use the sling for long periods of time?