nelle - a bit the same as you i think...not confident with ot and i didnt like they way it fot...shes dfinately a bit upright though too - and when she was in it she almost folded over on herself iykwim? shes very long and the mesh stuff didnt give much support...

but now ive found the babyhawk!! I think its the ine - its like the HAB sort off - but not so much fabric around us to make us hot - and not so fiddly...now just got to stop buying new nappies so i can afford one!! lol