I'm all good with time out Junglemum, i'l def have to check out the 1, 2, 3 book. Thanks for the suggestion.

Kate - thanks also for replying so quickly. Byron sleeps well but i do notice that his behavour does get a bit worse when he is getting towards nap time. I will also admit that i keep him up sometimes upto 30mins past his nap time some days so the 2 of them sleep at the same time cause i really need a break. Sometimes its just not suitable for us to get out to the shops or park with a minutes notice with the 2 of them. I play with him heaps - dd has 3 naps per day and he is up for 2 of them and he gets my undivided attention for the whole time. I hoping its a normal 2 year old thing he is doing?????? Its just not nice whatever it is and i'm willing to try anything so we are all happier.

Thanks Yules - i'm needing all these hug! I dont get on our tramoline very often but i will! Maybe it will help the both of us!