I havent found anything the really works but i did want to add the when he has his little hissy fits i never give in, even if i really want to cause i know it will end it!.

Mel, the distraction thing is really the only thing that works for us, so yes, silly dancing etc has become a regular occurance - thank you for bringing it up cause i forgot all about it whilst in my cranky space.

A better day had by all today - i actually had to ask Evie to stop touching her brother as it was annoying him (on his request ) and seeing her get in trouble made him happy!

Crazy kids. I need 8 arms and 2 bodies to keep everyone happy i think