STARRY - sounds like jbaby is a good sleeper during the day! and ur right its the same with B the better she sleep during the day the better she will sleep during the night!

blackduckies - thanks for that sleep promotes sleep advice - i wont try and cut her sleep - it does make sense and she does sleep better if she has her naps!
will take on ur advice and go straight to cows milk once the formula is finished! however how does that work when u go out? the milk wont keep well or is that how i should start weening her off her bottles by not taking them with us and just take water instead? my gosh not sure how i will handle cutting back the night time bottle but i guess its gotta be done! Thanks heaps for ur advice and tips!

Boomba - when does it get better??? hehehe