Thanks Kim - I guess I'll just keep doing what I'm doing and speak to the day care centre. I was a bit unsure about that because I felt like I'd be this meddling mother coming in and accusing a little boy of starting something - but I know if I just explain to them what DD said it should come across okay. Even if they just keep an eye out to see what's happening And if it means he does get noticed biting and it stops then I'll be happy!

Tam - thanks for the hugs hun. I really appreciate it Good to know the naughty corner is as effective as I've been hoping (although I know every kid is different, there isn't a kid in the world who would be happy about being removed from the fun for a few minutes!). I feel so out of my depth here, I'm paranoid about doing the wrong thing or being too hard or too soft...I just want to find the middle ground and have her be happy and a nice person at the end of the day. But no one ever said raising a family was easy! lol